tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7072740790042271296.post5175407936178394539..comments2024-03-27T20:28:11.840-04:00Comments on Exquisitely Unremarkable : Redefining Grandma: When A Grandparent Is In A Nursing HomeKim http://www.blogger.com/profile/15445291034631735026noreply@blogger.comBlogger24125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7072740790042271296.post-14152355898597277212014-09-11T19:55:08.716-04:002014-09-11T19:55:08.716-04:00Thank you Jen. It is hard, but she is home now and...Thank you Jen. It is hard, but she is home now and that helps a lot...just having her near to us. xoxoKim https://www.blogger.com/profile/15445291034631735026noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7072740790042271296.post-70966832897466359362014-09-11T19:48:39.816-04:002014-09-11T19:48:39.816-04:00Kimmie, how incredibly hard for you to see your mo...Kimmie, how incredibly hard for you to see your mom like that. Your words are incredibly heart felt and I truly feel for you. Truly. xo JenAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07420524123565812135noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7072740790042271296.post-4592707884856041962013-09-18T16:46:37.844-04:002013-09-18T16:46:37.844-04:00Grandparents do have so much to offer! Didn't ...Grandparents do have so much to offer! Didn't mean to make your cry, but seems like it had that effect on many and memory tears of happy times are good! Kim https://www.blogger.com/profile/15445291034631735026noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7072740790042271296.post-60889534323580370192013-09-18T16:41:53.293-04:002013-09-18T16:41:53.293-04:00You are right, Michelle, cherish it all today...an...You are right, Michelle, cherish it all today...and I think I did with my mom, as most of us try to do, but it's still sad now. Thanks for stopping by with your kind words!Kim https://www.blogger.com/profile/15445291034631735026noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7072740790042271296.post-29056948092436227882013-09-17T12:37:07.226-04:002013-09-17T12:37:07.226-04:00Beautifully written Kim. This shows that we should...Beautifully written Kim. This shows that we should each appreciate the little things in life and cherish the time we have with loved ones because we never know what tomorrow will bring. Thanks for linking up at My Favorite Posts Show Off Weekend Party. Hope to see you again next week and God bless.<br /><br />Michelle @ <a href="http://onwingandprayer.com/" rel="nofollow">On A Wing And A Prayer</a>Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09797808800920276336noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7072740790042271296.post-84822129657528521552013-09-17T00:26:32.028-04:002013-09-17T00:26:32.028-04:00As a person who was raised by her grandmother this...As a person who was raised by her grandmother this really made me think! I love the fact that they have a whole just for grandparents they dont get the credit they deserve sometimes.This made me cry but in a good way.Its always good to rememberpremar88https://www.blogger.com/profile/08469660329404101316noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7072740790042271296.post-5167985518465142032013-09-11T16:07:19.087-04:002013-09-11T16:07:19.087-04:00Thank you Linda, it was nice of you to stop by and...Thank you Linda, it was nice of you to stop by and comment! :)Kim https://www.blogger.com/profile/15445291034631735026noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7072740790042271296.post-17982089641005334152013-09-10T18:57:33.362-04:002013-09-10T18:57:33.362-04:00Kim, what a wonderful tribute! LindaKim, what a wonderful tribute! LindaAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17350860019623249382noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7072740790042271296.post-39064863294334366862013-09-10T16:16:50.916-04:002013-09-10T16:16:50.916-04:00Poppy, thank you for your kind and thoughtful word...Poppy, thank you for your kind and thoughtful words. I love your word "active" ~ what a great way to add some new light! You're right, she may not be active anymore, but that doesn't mean she can't be involved in new ways, other ways! Thank you so much for taking the time to comment and share your insight! Now I'm REALLY glad that your computer was fixed! ;)Kim https://www.blogger.com/profile/15445291034631735026noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7072740790042271296.post-11589270302207550922013-09-10T14:23:49.522-04:002013-09-10T14:23:49.522-04:00Hi Kim,
What a heartfelt little tribute to your s...Hi Kim,<br /><br />What a heartfelt little tribute to your sweet mother! It is evident how much you love and respect her and miss your more active times together. But, you are a good daughter, Kim, and your mother knows this, I'm sure! Keep positive and keep telling your kids all the fun and loving stories of their special grandma. They need to know how vibrant and present she was, and IS, in their lives!<br /><br />Take care,<br /><br />PoppyPoppyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08980323586402386609noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7072740790042271296.post-62982955975448125002013-09-10T11:39:18.595-04:002013-09-10T11:39:18.595-04:00Thank you for you lovely words, Trish. I am sorry ...Thank you for you lovely words, Trish. I am sorry to hear that you are in a similar situation. I wouldn't wish this on anyone. I will return the prayers your way and hopes for better daysKim https://www.blogger.com/profile/15445291034631735026noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7072740790042271296.post-31247556732261965142013-09-10T11:32:15.857-04:002013-09-10T11:32:15.857-04:00Trying Tracy, I'm trying! The goal of my writi...Trying Tracy, I'm trying! The goal of my writing is to keep me focused on finding the beauty and grace in every day ~ including this bad situation. It's not always easy, but the blog is keeping focused on trying...and keeping me honest! ;)Kim https://www.blogger.com/profile/15445291034631735026noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7072740790042271296.post-70313772208655264192013-09-10T11:30:06.975-04:002013-09-10T11:30:06.975-04:00Thanks, Jen. Your words really mean a lot and you&...Thanks, Jen. Your words really mean a lot and you're right, they do remember some of the good stuff. I just have to keep reminding them I guess. Speaking of memories, I still remember your mom's scrambled eggs! The house always smelled so good on those summer mornings. Sometimes we make eggs, the aroma just triggers so many lovely memories of your mom...including knitting and sewing! I love that. Kim https://www.blogger.com/profile/15445291034631735026noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7072740790042271296.post-80957244279809417102013-09-10T11:22:22.707-04:002013-09-10T11:22:22.707-04:00Thank you ladies...sorry for the tears! The nursin...Thank you ladies...sorry for the tears! The nursing home situation is awful, unless you've been through it, it's hard to really understand. However, you are right, it is a lovely facility and the best medical care for her needs right now. We are trying to accept that, give her love and spend time together. I'll get working on those S'mores! Kim https://www.blogger.com/profile/15445291034631735026noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7072740790042271296.post-51404638398223919042013-09-10T11:18:41.273-04:002013-09-10T11:18:41.273-04:00I told my mom everything and it's a very terri...I told my mom everything and it's a very terrible feeling, Debbie. There are days I feel genuinely lost without her...or the way she used to be, I guess. Not everyone has such a close relationship with their mom, cherish it! :)Kim https://www.blogger.com/profile/15445291034631735026noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7072740790042271296.post-26662061925560901482013-09-10T11:16:13.264-04:002013-09-10T11:16:13.264-04:00I guess it's all in the perspective, Dana. I h...I guess it's all in the perspective, Dana. I have to change mine to a more positive and accepting one. I am glad that your parents are all doing well! That is a wonderful gift, enjoy them! Kim https://www.blogger.com/profile/15445291034631735026noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7072740790042271296.post-11277939037688306782013-09-10T09:35:29.175-04:002013-09-10T09:35:29.175-04:00Thanks for stopping by to read about my mom, Vel. ...Thanks for stopping by to read about my mom, Vel. I'm sorry I made you weepy! Seems to be a common comment, I guess that reinforces my thoughts on how important grandparents really are. I'm glad if I could rekindle some lovely memories of your own grandparents. Have a lovely day and hope you're enjoying that stunning new kitchen! :)Kim https://www.blogger.com/profile/15445291034631735026noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7072740790042271296.post-8295332611703685442013-09-09T23:27:27.743-04:002013-09-09T23:27:27.743-04:00Beautiful Kim. Can feel the sense of loss for you...Beautiful Kim. Can feel the sense of loss for yourself and your girls. But also admire your ability to try and continue to make new memories that you all can carry with you.<br /><br />TracyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7072740790042271296.post-3367320859493051372013-09-09T22:12:19.853-04:002013-09-09T22:12:19.853-04:00Kim - I have tears in my eyes as I read this, it i...Kim - I have tears in my eyes as I read this, it is just beautiful. I wish everyone knew your Mom as we do. She is such a wonderful person and I have the best memories of all the times our families spent together. I am sure your girls will always remember special moments with Nene, no matter how big or small. My kids still remember making scrambled eggs with their Nene, it was the only thing she knew to do with boys - no knitting or sewing!Jennoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7072740790042271296.post-81383335782501336082013-09-09T19:18:13.064-04:002013-09-09T19:18:13.064-04:00Hey Kim, Wonderfully said!! I have similar situati...Hey Kim, Wonderfully said!! I have similar situations, and of course, these things too, were not in my plans! I am sure your mother was and is still very proud to be your mother, your children's grandmother, and to have been involved in such a large part of your lives! I was very moved by what you wrote. I wish you, your mother, and the rest of your family well. You all will be in my prayers. TrishAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7072740790042271296.post-55599794025840251952013-09-09T18:25:51.996-04:002013-09-09T18:25:51.996-04:00Kim, what a heartfelt and moving story.(Denise is ...Kim, what a heartfelt and moving story.(Denise is crying like a baby!) While our mother has been gone a while now, she was in a nursing home those last few months. Nothing is harder, nothing! What can come from this is that our children see how in this situation we can love in the most important way which is through caring for one another in the most adverse of situations. Bless your sweet mother and your family. Just hold tight to each other as long as you can and fill her room with homemade cards and yes, S'mores. Warmest best wishes, Sharon and Denise <br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7072740790042271296.post-36690006631151641192013-09-09T17:40:55.694-04:002013-09-09T17:40:55.694-04:00she sounds like a wonderful woman. I feel that way...she sounds like a wonderful woman. I feel that way about my mom. She is my best friend and I can't imagine how life would be if she wasn't around.Debbie - Wrinkled Mommyhttp://wrinkledmommy.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7072740790042271296.post-62695556621904151002013-09-09T13:28:08.848-04:002013-09-09T13:28:08.848-04:00This was lovely, Kim. I am sad for your children t...This was lovely, Kim. I am sad for your children too. I only knew two of my grandparents, and I am so thankful that all four of my children's are still healthy. But you are right - your mom and your kids can still make memories together, even if they aren't under the circumstances you would have hoped they would be.Dana @ Kiss my Listhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12909181714814693849noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7072740790042271296.post-31111941698818628482013-09-09T10:33:09.514-04:002013-09-09T10:33:09.514-04:00You made me weepy Kim - I remember my own grandmot...You made me weepy Kim - I remember my own grandmother, whom I remember very vividly still (even the way she smells).. I miss her so and how I wish I could chat with her and my grandfather too.. they would be so happy to see my own kids and I bet they would be excellent babysitters as well..<br /><br />Thank you for this wonderful post, adding this holiday to my calendar dear. And I'm sure, wherever your mom is, she's smiling down on your effort. :-) A big toast to your mom dear!Vel Cristehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07296838254480885046noreply@blogger.com